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Welcome to Irresistible Dating


Think of us as your very own dating cheerleaders.

Online dating can be tough, lonely and a bit intimidating sometimes and yet it is the perfect way to put yourself out there and reach great, single people that you wouldn’t otherwise meet.


We have both found lasting love online and truly believe everyone can with a little effort and the right mindset. Irresistible Dating grew out of our passion to help people like you make your foray into online dating a whole lot easier and a heck of a lot more fun. So if you’re feeling fed up, low in self-confidence and like you’re missing out on life, we are here to take your dating to the next level. Between us we provide a completely holistic online dating service unlike anything you’ll find elsewhere. Our unique set of talents mean we support you with:


confidence coaching – to get in the right mindset

profile writing – so your dating profile is the movie trailer to your life

dating photos – so your photos jump off the page and attract lots of attention


We don’t believe in the Cyrano de Bergerac school of profile writing meaning we don’t write your profile for you. Instead we guide and coach you through a process that will mean you end up with an awe-inspiring yet, crucially, authentic profile that perfectly aligns with who you are and who you are looking for. The photos to accompany your profile will showcase you, but you on your very best day. Taken by Saskia, founder of the UK’s very first dating photography specialists, you’ll love having profile photos you can’t stop smiling about.


No other dating profile service in the world offers what we do. We are unique in what we offer in helping you create a truly irresistible dating profile.

We hope you are as excited as we are to welcome you here. We can’t wait to meet you..

Meet your dating cheerleaders



Rebecca Perkins


Life coach, author, blogger & speaker

Following divorce, Rebecca found herself single and 45 years old in 2008. She hadn’t dated since she was 24 and found that much had changed. In need of male company, she decided to venture into the brave new world of online dating.

She learned a lot! She also had a lot of fun, met some great guys, and became fascinated by what people chose to write in their profiles. After a few years of never quite connecting with like-minded guys, she got together with a friend in the U.S and began crafting her irresistible dating profile.Within a matter of weeks she had met ‘the one’.

Rebecca is the author of Best Knickers Always: 50 Lessons for Midlife and founder of The Midlife Coach. She is a success coach working with women to navigate the transition of midlife. She has appeared on BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour and BBC London. She writes regularly for The Huffington Post on a variety of subjects and about dating for eHarmony and The Guardian Soulmates Blog.

Midlife has taught her to be open-minded, to take more risks and to live each day with the question, “If not now, when?”


Contact her

email Rebecca at or call on +44 (0)7928 545247

You can find Rebecca on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest and Instagram


Rebecca by herself in 3 words – bold, passionate & big-hearted

Rebecca by Saskia in 3 words – cool, inspiring & bodacious


Head over here to read Saskia’s interview with Rebecca

Evening in Honfleur

Saskia Nelson

dating profile expert

Photographer, award-winning dating expert, blogger & entrepreneur


Saskia Nelson is the talent behind the award-winning Hey Saturday, the UK’s coolest dating photography business. She has been credited by Time magazine with kickstarting the genre of dating photography and is now considered the leading dating photography expert in the industry. She also trains up other photographers in the field.

She is passionate about helping the UK’s eclectic range of single people to shine online and ultimately find love, friends and happiness. She specialises in creating gorgeous photos for her clients to help them build awesome online dating profiles that help tell the story of who they really are. She also puts her extensive online dating experiences to good use by sharing her experiences and wisdom on her own blog and by writing for dating websites, matchmakers and for other leading dating experts.

She is still buzzing from having won the 2014 UK Dating Awards ‘Best Dating Individual’ and being a finalist in the iDates Global Dating Awards for ‘Most Innovative Company’ 2015 and 2016 and ‘Best Product Design’ 2016.



You can find her on Twitter and on Facebook.

or email her at

Saskia by herself in 3 words – (I agree with the step kids when asked this lol): cool, chilled & sound

Saskia by Rebecca in 3 words – (but I love this too!): trailblazer, uber-cool & dynamic


Head over here to read Rebecca’s interview with Saskia

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Sask in action